JooJee
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BeLLaMaFIa said:yes i have.. and i dont regret it at all..i'm not w/ that person anymore and he never knew about it..and i was all "oooo i'd never cheat cuz i wouldnt want that done to me" my ass!! when ur in that position anything can happen.. i've thought about how would i feel if he did it to me adn it didnt bother me at all.. so i continued to cheat.. yeah yeah ima horrible person but w/ me it's boredom.. like one time it was a new years party and my b/f at teh time REFUSED to go w/ me. and stay home.. so the situation came up where one of my guy friends approachedd me, it hit new years so we kissedd....and kissed again and again :lol:
and i'm also one of those ppl that doesnt think kissing is cheating.. im only replying cuz that's wat sydney said.. i think when u have sex (oral included) that's cheating.. kissing ,holding hands, watever can b anything..but say u kiss a guy/girl one time then ur gonna break up ur whole relationshop for that one kiss.. wat if there was no emoition?? unless u feel like u want that person in more then just a one time thing then OBVIOUSLy u shouldnt b w/ the person u r now.. :tomato:
oh and if anybody wants to argue w/ me go ahead but i won't reply back cuz i hate relationship topics
but know one thing, unless u've been cheated on then u never know wat ur capable of :angel2:
akh bellla you got guts lol
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JohnSydney
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how the hell did this poll turn serious?
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JohnSydney
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la la im just asking cos i posted it in chitchat so obviously its been moved
is cool gf! :lol:
is cool gf! :lol:
shamirum
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BuNzZz said:peaches said:NO but ive been cheated on!
Me too
Me million? LOL, because if I said "me, three" I'd forget the millions of others that have dealt with this. :bangin:
Although I swear, just a guy that I love/like/whatever *thinking* about another girl (like mentioning her, or saying her name in a way I can tell is more than friendly) drives me crazy. I'd rather he kiss her and even other things ( :blink: ) than have feelings for her. Because to me the love and the relationship is in the emotions and thoughts and then the physical stuff can either make it stronger, or totally kill it. I think two people can be JUST physically attracted at first, and then fall in love or what have you, but then it's the "feelings" that make it a reason to stay faithful and not be with others.
For me, cheating in the mind is more hurtful than cheating with your body. It's really hard to explain: I don't condone either, I don't like either, that's for damn sure, but one really is more painful than the other, depending on what you value more.
As for that mentality that "I would NEVER cheat," oh wow, I learned my lesson, believe me. Don't assume anything because NO I didn't cheat, but I will never say "never" again. Haha, I said it, but seriously. I said so many "nevers" and then became a total hypocrite, so I try not to do that anymore, because you never know where life will take you, and you sure as hell can't know who'll be next to you for the ride.
But after the conversation I just had, I really hope it's Peter! :angelnot: