De facto or married?

shamoosey said:
nope, rather wait till im married..im sure wateva little annoying habits my hubby may have i can deal with plus most of our parents survived all these years without having to live with each other b4 marriage, im sure we can too :mrgreen:
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same here :D
 
JohnSydney said:
yani akhnokhon....teewetoon lakha hamzoomeh basit khaya min kha kheeta le yatin modi, qamta machkhoon kha yala/brata spy o kharta takhminoon basit kheta modaleh

reeshi soorsimleh

PEACHES said with everything aside! would u live with someone etc so that means NO RELIGION!

and marian azista la, it doesnt specifically say in the bible its wrong to live with someone before marriage etc, the same way it doesnt exactly say its wrong to snort coke or have sex in a toilet or inject heroin, its just wrong cos its not a valid relationship, its not a Godly union etc, God doesnt encourage/recognise defacto relationships and sole parent thingies etc, its a social value and we all know society is Godless, i mean seriously if ur going out with someone and u decide to live together while ur still dating, chances are very high and extreme that u will end up banging each others brains out cos u have independence and freedom and hormones and woteva, u will be tempted to do it and give in to that temptation, anyways this is an issue for a different topic altogether

peachy mo widlakh bi owa booqarakh :bangin:
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i agree with what you said, but we can't force our opinion stating that it is WRONG...its all about how you are brought up...
we, as Assyrians and middle eaterns are brought up in a society where living together and sex before marriage is considered sin, no its not a sin, some of us think it is wrong, that is our personal opinion, but it is wrong because our society didn't accept such thing for whatever reasons...and i think it mainly had to do with verginity....
 
peachy mo widlakh bi owa booqarakh
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I had to ask this. I was explaining to some Aussie why i was 26 still living at home and why i wouldnt move out till i was married :blink:
 
I agree with Moja, what the hell is the point of marriage if your gonna go ahead and live with that person before hand? lol go out on dates, enjoy each others company, spend the whole day together, but living with the other person is something I would never do, until marriage. :biggrin:
 
Senalko said:
i agree with what you said, but we can't force our opinion stating that it is WRONG...its all about how you are brought up...
we, as Assyrians and middle eaterns are brought up in a society where living together and sex before marriage is considered sin, no its not a sin, some of us think it is wrong, that is our personal opinion, but it is wrong because our society didn't accept such thing for whatever reasons...and i think it mainly had to do with verginity....
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Marian, whilst i agree with you fully that Sex in our Society has always been based on how we are Raised up, I honestly find it very Deceving to claim that its No SIN to do it....

The bible Clearly Says its a Terrible Sin, and there is tons of Sayings where jesus and then later on the Apostols Confirmed it.....

its never a personal Opinion when it comes to what GOD says.... YOU make it an opinion cuase you need to justify what Suits you, and what makes your mind feel No guilt to do it...

at the end, You are always Free to do what u think is best for you, BUT do not falsly say Sex before marrage is no SIN, because it is....
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i am not justifying anything to suit "my situation" which does not exist, no.

you believe in bible so much, who wed adam and eve? how did human population increase if adam and eve were the first people on earth?

i would like to see a quote in the bible where it says from God that sex before marriage is a sin.

i don't want to have sex before marriage, no, and i don't agree that people should go on have sex before marriage or live with someone before marriage, i do NOT agree with that...however, i do strongly believe that its a cultural value.

there are greater sins happening around the world to even consider sex before marriage as a sin! don't you think so senalko?


chaldeans wed first cousins, is that a sin? if you say it is than how did the human population grow?
 
i agree to an extent...


i don't want to drag this on more than it has, we are destroying this thread...so i'll leave it alone :)


thanx again senalko for the input.
 
thomas i wasnt asking if it was a sin or immoral... that would be in the religion section then

it was more of a relationship question...

Either way its gone down that road now and not much can be done
 
thomas it wasnt a critisim againt you :angelnot:

i think you can...my question was if living with someone wasnt a sin...if you didnt fear it from God etc...would you do it...

AHHHHHHHH never mind, im having a hard time explaining this and i must get back to work...
 
peaches said:
thomas it wasnt a critisim againt you :angelnot:

i think you can...my question was if living with someone wasnt a sin...if you didnt fear it from God etc...would you do it...

AHHHHHHHH never mind, im having a hard time explaining this and i must get back to work...
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aside from my religion and the way i was brought up, i really couldn't tell you peaches because i don't know what kind of a person i would be without my religion and my parents and all the rest...


and sorry to divert your topic and get religion in! wasn't intentional...topic gets a topic u know!
 
yea i'd live with her, its better then living alone at least u get some action every now and then :lol: just kidding.


you never know what the future is holding for you.
 
Living with some1 & getting married to some1 is the same thing. We are talking about the difference between marriage & common-law relationship.

To decide living with some1 cuz you love him/her, does not mean like, hay I love this girl she will make my life happy 24/7. We are not dumb and are living in a tough world.

As a guy, I beleive it's easier to separate if you are in a common-law relationship. Just thing of these....

* She will feel inferior when comparing herself to other.
* I ll limit her legal power over my life. Sorry babe, but the house is mine. Remember we just living together.
* Are her parents going to help her back, if she leaves the house after a fight ? Probably not, cuz they do not know me & do not c me as a responsible man.
 
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