Assyrians - Under Cover Dating
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can't say this is a funny, yet relevant thread! hahaha
although all of you are right, funny how few brought up CULTURE/TRADITION.
the generation above us, our parents mainly, were not exposed to 'dating' [duh] in the middle east. our generation is caught in the middle so to speak b/c we were brought up under their views but we are exposed to the 'new' ways.... its really tough sometimes! the generation after us, our kids, will be different ofcourse.
although all of you are right, funny how few brought up CULTURE/TRADITION.
the generation above us, our parents mainly, were not exposed to 'dating' [duh] in the middle east. our generation is caught in the middle so to speak b/c we were brought up under their views but we are exposed to the 'new' ways.... its really tough sometimes! the generation after us, our kids, will be different ofcourse.
AssyrianPrince21 said::lol:
whenever you go out... ur bound to run into at least ONE or TWO ppl that are gonna talk smack to ur family.... :lol:
My parents personlly dont really care... I have cuzins that have problems tho...
i know...there is always some1 in ur family that gossip about u and ur g/f...ur exactly right about it bro...
its good they dont care as long ur not doing something stupid to that chick...oooh thats sucks bro...
AssyrianPrince21 said:MAFIA187 said:AssyrianPrince21 said::lol:
whenever you go out... ur bound to run into at least ONE or TWO ppl that are gonna talk smack to ur family.... :lol:
My parents personlly dont really care... I have cuzins that have problems tho...
yea i know...thats what i dislike from our assyrian/chaldean people in this country and any countries...
mine dont care only if your not lying to them about g/fs...then its all good with urself...oh thats pretty sucks :biggrin:
Exacccctly man....its annoying.... its like... if MYYY parents dont care...who the hell are YOU to care.... :bash:
lol i know la? u tell me about it
Hey, did you guys hear that AssyrianPrince21 is dating a porn star? Yeah, he posts her pictures on here and everything. I think her grandma on her mom's side is half tyrayta. And........................................and...................wait for it............................doesn't like biryani!
My gf is Assyrian, her father has a hard time accepting I exist... after two years I still havent met her parents! Can anyone tell me of people they know have this type of situation? I didnt actually think this sorta thing went on til I met my gf.... kinda naive I know, but its not something that happens with Australians... not in my experience anyway til now!
every assyrian in hamilton knew bout my relationship, every parent loved both of us, no one complained and would ask me from time to time how she is and how we both are and stuff like that, we tried keepin it to ourself but too many ppl found out too fast, and my buddy is goin threw it right now but everyone knows bout him too. but the biggest issue is the parents, and its f*cked up but if the guy n girl like eachother or love eachother they shouldnt have to worry bout wat anyone has to say...
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I was going to write more but I was at work and cut it short.
for those of you still questioning the 'habits' of our parents and what-not, all I can say is 'get over it'. All we have to do is ride this generation out until its our turn.
yes, it does suck to have to go 'undercover' when you really like/love someone. but, you also have to remember that the underlying factor of WHY they act this way is b/c of the marriage factor.
for some odd reason, the main goal/cycle for our parents generation and everyone before them, was to have kids and then marry them off and THEN live your life. total a$$-backwards. well, I guess back then there really wasnt much to do, thats why they had 10.5 kids/family on average hahaha
anyway, point is that the 'western' societies brought new thought into our heads. yes, i did grow up with the 'puritan' notion that I will not have sex until marriage and that dating is bad....did I follow? I'll let you figure that one out hahahaha I pretty much assimilated to the society in which I lived, I mean, it makes sense, its normal. I didn't want to be a social outcast.
someone mentioned that its easier to date a nakhraya, TOTALLY true! omg, going out with non-Assyrians is great.... no family drama, no paranoidism, none of that. heck, meet her parents first day! why not! hahaha to me that makes more sense b/c if the guy meets her parents first, its a total shock and maybe they can get the picture of why she likes dude. [the guy can also be threatened at this point hahaha]
so, lets face it, we aren't 'innocent' anymore. kids are growing up fast and sooner or later no one will care to do the 'undercover' dating. you already see little girls at parties dressing up all skanky and carrying drinks in their hand. this was NOT the case when I was growing up...heck, girls at parties wore NORMAL clothes and the only thing they looked forward too was if the guy they liked was looking at them and had the guts to go up to them and chat or give them their number or pager number hahahaa
oh and T.O. a good way for a guy to try to talk to 'his girl' at a wedding/party is to pull the 'dance next to her in khigga' bit... ive been guilty and so has someone else i know hahaha
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for those of you still questioning the 'habits' of our parents and what-not, all I can say is 'get over it'. All we have to do is ride this generation out until its our turn.
yes, it does suck to have to go 'undercover' when you really like/love someone. but, you also have to remember that the underlying factor of WHY they act this way is b/c of the marriage factor.
for some odd reason, the main goal/cycle for our parents generation and everyone before them, was to have kids and then marry them off and THEN live your life. total a$$-backwards. well, I guess back then there really wasnt much to do, thats why they had 10.5 kids/family on average hahaha
anyway, point is that the 'western' societies brought new thought into our heads. yes, i did grow up with the 'puritan' notion that I will not have sex until marriage and that dating is bad....did I follow? I'll let you figure that one out hahahaha I pretty much assimilated to the society in which I lived, I mean, it makes sense, its normal. I didn't want to be a social outcast.
someone mentioned that its easier to date a nakhraya, TOTALLY true! omg, going out with non-Assyrians is great.... no family drama, no paranoidism, none of that. heck, meet her parents first day! why not! hahaha to me that makes more sense b/c if the guy meets her parents first, its a total shock and maybe they can get the picture of why she likes dude. [the guy can also be threatened at this point hahaha]
so, lets face it, we aren't 'innocent' anymore. kids are growing up fast and sooner or later no one will care to do the 'undercover' dating. you already see little girls at parties dressing up all skanky and carrying drinks in their hand. this was NOT the case when I was growing up...heck, girls at parties wore NORMAL clothes and the only thing they looked forward too was if the guy they liked was looking at them and had the guts to go up to them and chat or give them their number or pager number hahahaa
oh and T.O. a good way for a guy to try to talk to 'his girl' at a wedding/party is to pull the 'dance next to her in khigga' bit... ive been guilty and so has someone else i know hahaha
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Sheik Abdul Bin Fallafel
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this explains a lot.
sorry to be a pain in the ass btw
... to answer the question its like bookta said. everyone assumes you're engaged, and that 5 dates is enough to know someone for the rest of your life.
AssyrianBookTa
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loooolBAGHDADDY said:
Assyrians are crazy...and MOST not all the parents are old fashioned as hell..they don t want u to date unless u know ur gonna get married..which makes NO sense at all because how are u gonna get married if u dont go out with the person and figure out what he or she is like first?...second reason why it must be kept a secret is because as soon as u have a boyfriend they want to know when the engagement date is so "people dont talk shit" therefore the relationship or relationships must be kept a secret until u know that its the right person... oh and the double standard gets on my nerves...its ok for a guy cause he s guy but not ok for a girl to date..
What i think: (haha) assyrians should face the fact that their kids will date no matter what so its better for them to come to this realization and accept it...theres two options...get close to the son or daughter...and find out whats going on in their lives...who they are dating and what they are doing..or the choice all assyrians choose..be strict as hell and let them do it behind their backs...
What i think: (haha) assyrians should face the fact that their kids will date no matter what so its better for them to come to this realization and accept it...theres two options...get close to the son or daughter...and find out whats going on in their lives...who they are dating and what they are doing..or the choice all assyrians choose..be strict as hell and let them do it behind their backs...
BuNzZz
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The last prick i was with literally everyone knew about go figure how it didnt last AMEN...anyways the way i see it if my parents and my family are ok with it then to hell with people. Nowadays like they say you have to kiss a lot of toads to find your prince. Sometimes people are lucky and their first serious relationship ends up working out and others it takes awhile by i guess dating around and assyrians dont understand that they feel if youre with a few different guys in a 5 year span persay then youre automatically labeled a "gahba". Majority of assyrian parents expect their kids to get hitched by 25 yet dont allow them to walk out of the house after sunset. I know a girl like that shes with some guy for the past 2 years and no one in her family knows..moot soda.