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We always hear about Assyrian girls venting at Assyrian men because they have sex with girls before marriage and screw around, but when it is time for marriage, they want a virgin one. While this is not true of all Assyrian men, I have to agree with the girls on this one. Men can't have it both ways. Moreover, if they are going to screw around with girls, how will there be any virgins left? if, for example, every man has sex with 2, 3 girls, then nothing will be left (hypothetically speaking)

But, and I hope people weren't blind to this, Assyrian men are not the only men in the world who go around having sex, and then look for a virgin when they want to get married. Canadians and Italian men do it too and at a worse rate. This was made clear in my conversation with many customers at my both jobs. I have been asking them about this for years and I didn't post until I made sure it was frequent enough.

Here are some of the examples:

-A Canadian customer, from a Texas origin was in the store with his wife. His wife, who is a reborn Chrsitian was telling me "these Candian men are monsters. They have sex a million times a year, but when they get married, they want a virgin..."
She even said that this is leading to child pornography, because only chiuldren under 13 are pure enough yet.

-An Italian customer of mine was telling me the same thing. He said " a lot of Italian men end up going back to Italy, to the vilages, in hopes of finding a virgin..."

-A customer for whom I do some computer works told me the same thing. He said "at least you guys (Iraqis) can probably go back to Iraq and get a Virgin girl...but for us Canadians, where can we go?" LOL


And many many more. So as we can see, this problem is not the exclusive domain of Assyrians. It just happens that we talk about it more and think it is only our problem.



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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #1 on: May 09, 2006, 11:26:23 PM »
lolol
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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #2 on: May 10, 2006, 02:54:50 AM »
We always hear about Assyrian girls venting at Assyrian men because they have sex with girls before marriage and screw around, but when it is time for marriage, they want a virgin one. While this is not true of all Assyrian men, I have to agree with the girls on this one. Men can't have it both ways. Moreover, if they are going to screw around with girls, how will there be any virgins left? if, for example, every man has sex with 2, 3 girls, then nothing will be left (hypothetically speaking)

But, and I hope people weren't blind to this, Assyrian men are not the only men in the world who go around having sex, and then look for a virgin when they want to get married. Canadians and Italian men do it too and at a worse rate. This was made clear in my conversation with many customers at my both jobs. I have been asking them about this for years and I didn't post until I made sure it was frequent enough.

Here are some of the examples:

-A Canadian customer, from a Texas origin was in the store with his wife. His wife, who is a reborn Chrsitian was telling me "these Candian men are monsters. They have sex a million times a year, but when they get married, they want a virgin..."
She even said that this is leading to child pornography, because only chiuldren under 13 are pure enough yet.

-An Italian customer of mine was telling me the same thing. He said " a lot of Italian men end up going back to Italy, to the vilages, in hopes of finding a virgin..."

-A customer for whom I do some computer works told me the same thing. He said "at least you guys (Iraqis) can probably go back to Iraq and get a Virgin girl...but for us Canadians, where can we go?" LOL


And many many more. So as we can see, this problem is not the exclusive domain of Assyrians. It just happens that we talk about it more and think it is only our problem.



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ive been thinkin like that too



so thats why they all goes back to iraq huh  :loool:

i maybe shouldnt laugh about it  :giggle:

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #3 on: May 10, 2006, 03:25:14 AM »
I think Rusian people are more shkhtanee than all other people, cause if you are over 25 and you say you are a virgin, they will think that there is something wrong with you, and they won't ask you out lol
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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #4 on: May 10, 2006, 05:07:34 AM »
Only assyrians?

Nasha how about the entire middle east and the whole moshelmanta population.

Also the very religious are the same..

But a lot of men also want to screw around but want a virgin because its somethign to do with their ego, they dont want someone that has been deflowered by someone other than them...

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #5 on: May 10, 2006, 04:30:27 PM »

ive been thinkin like that too



so thats why they all goes back to iraq huh  :loool:

i maybe shouldnt laugh about it  :giggle:

No, they go to iraq because its easier to get a girl there. And so easy to slave them.


yeah thats true too though, i hate that kinda ppl who thinks likes that we're in 2000, but anyway i think girls now days in iraq are not old fashioned and they are smarter now than before 

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #6 on: May 10, 2006, 08:06:47 PM »
haha. senalko.... muslims get like 50 virgins and this poor guy just wants 1.

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #7 on: May 10, 2006, 11:10:12 PM »
there are NO guarantee's last time i checked you can BUY YOUR VIRGINITY or should I say have it restored for $3,000.  That's what the surgeon charges to put a new Hymen on..................SO, GUYS YOU CAN NEVER BE SURE.........Plus how many took it up the rear........ewwwwww.  THE Joke is on anyone that makes it such a priority most men that do treat their women like chattel.

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #8 on: May 11, 2006, 10:46:27 AM »
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i'd rather have a non virgin  :mrgreen:


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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #9 on: May 11, 2006, 11:06:26 AM »
We always hear about Assyrian girls venting at Assyrian men because they have sex with girls before marriage and screw around, but when it is time for marriage, they want a virgin one. While this is not true of all Assyrian men, I have to agree with the girls on this one. Men can't have it both ways. Moreover, if they are going to screw around with girls, how will there be any virgins left? if, for example, every man has sex with 2, 3 girls, then nothing will be left (hypothetically speaking)

But, and I hope people weren't blind to this, Assyrian men are not the only men in the world who go around having sex, and then look for a virgin when they want to get married. Canadians and Italian men do it too and at a worse rate. This was made clear in my conversation with many customers at my both jobs. I have been asking them about this for years and I didn't post until I made sure it was frequent enough.

Here are some of the examples:

-A Canadian customer, from a Texas origin was in the store with his wife. His wife, who is a reborn Chrsitian was telling me "these Candian men are monsters. They have sex a million times a year, but when they get married, they want a virgin..."
She even said that this is leading to child pornography, because only chiuldren under 13 are pure enough yet.

-An Italian customer of mine was telling me the same thing. He said " a lot of Italian men end up going back to Italy, to the vilages, in hopes of finding a virgin..."

-A customer for whom I do some computer works told me the same thing. He said "at least you guys (Iraqis) can probably go back to Iraq and get a Virgin girl...but for us Canadians, where can we go?" LOL


And many many more. So as we can see, this problem is not the exclusive domain of Assyrians. It just happens that we talk about it more and think it is only our problem.



ASHOOR

Well here in England, you tend to find that the assyrian guys will date and have their sexual 'fun' with non assyrian girls, and then when it comes time for them to get married, they drop their girlfriends like a deadweight and then let their parents hook them up with a 'good assyrian girl'.......
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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #10 on: May 11, 2006, 01:03:12 PM »
This is the first virgin thread topic with no violence!  I am so happy  :clap:.

C'mon on someone start talking smack  :ranting:

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #11 on: May 11, 2006, 08:44:23 PM »
since we are on the topic i would say this is an interesting

There are men in Guam whose full-time job is to travel the countryside and deflower young virgins, who pay them for the privilege of having sex for the first time...Reason: under Guam law, it is expressly forbidden for virgins to marry.


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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #12 on: May 13, 2006, 03:42:22 AM »
We always hear about Assyrian girls venting at Assyrian men because they have sex with girls before marriage and screw around, but when it is time for marriage, they want a virgin one. While this is not true of all Assyrian men, I have to agree with the girls on this one. Men can't have it both ways. Moreover, if they are going to screw around with girls, how will there be any virgins left? if, for example, every man has sex with 2, 3 girls, then nothing will be left (hypothetically speaking)

But, and I hope people weren't blind to this, Assyrian men are not the only men in the world who go around having sex, and then look for a virgin when they want to get married. Canadians and Italian men do it too and at a worse rate. This was made clear in my conversation with many customers at my both jobs. I have been asking them about this for years and I didn't post until I made sure it was frequent enough.

Here are some of the examples:

-A Canadian customer, from a Texas origin was in the store with his wife. His wife, who is a reborn Chrsitian was telling me "these Candian men are monsters. They have sex a million times a year, but when they get married, they want a virgin..."
She even said that this is leading to child pornography, because only chiuldren under 13 are pure enough yet.

-An Italian customer of mine was telling me the same thing. He said " a lot of Italian men end up going back to Italy, to the vilages, in hopes of finding a virgin..."

-A customer for whom I do some computer works told me the same thing. He said "at least you guys (Iraqis) can probably go back to Iraq and get a Virgin girl...but for us Canadians, where can we go?" LOL


And many many more. So as we can see, this problem is not the exclusive domain of Assyrians. It just happens that we talk about it more and think it is only our problem.



ASHOOR

Well here in England, you tend to find that the assyrian guys will date and have their sexual 'fun' with non assyrian girls, and then when it comes time for them to get married, they drop their girlfriends like a deadweight and then let their parents hook them up with a 'good assyrian girl'.......

that is true with some of the guys here lulubell...but alot of the guys i no dont mind a non-virgin as long as she wasnt like the town bike lool
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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #13 on: May 14, 2006, 01:44:40 AM »
This is the first virgin thread topic with no violence!  I am so happy  :clap:.

C'mon on someone start talking smack  :ranting:

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ashoor, i'm wondering what lead you to believe only assyrians want virgins.

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #14 on: May 14, 2006, 02:46:27 PM »
Personally, I'd rather have an untouched slice of cheesecake.
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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #15 on: May 14, 2006, 03:53:25 PM »
Cherry cheesecake?

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« Reply #16 on: May 14, 2006, 05:11:57 PM »
Fresh cherry cheesecake. Thats the one.
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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #17 on: May 15, 2006, 10:14:16 AM »
I've never liked cheesecake
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« Reply #18 on: May 16, 2006, 11:20:12 AM »
"What is love? What is creation? What is longing? What is a star? Thus asks the last man, and he blinks. The earth has become small, and on it hops the last man, who makes everything small"

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #19 on: May 16, 2006, 12:14:35 PM »
While I think this may be generally true, I've noticed that a lot of our younger men don't consider virginity a priority.  My favorite quote is from some family friends.  The mother was upset because her son only seemed interested in American women and had no interest in settling down.  She pleaded with him, "Mayinookh kha brata min Surya."  (I'll bring you a girl from Syria) His response?  "Awww-hooo!!  Taza garik malpinah dakh nashqa!!"  (Great! Now I have to teach her how to kiss!) 
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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #20 on: May 31, 2006, 03:15:37 AM »
I'd not worry whether the girl I am involved with has had sexual relationship with another... Apparently it works both ways. What mainly matters is her faithfulness toward me, and for the sake of marriage. Finding a unadulterated girl is from the past, WE (I) shall be concerned about a bigger dilemma here, Lately more of the Assyrian/Chaldean spouses are ridiculously cheating on each other.... It is preposterous

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« Reply #21 on: May 31, 2006, 11:27:58 AM »


I like chocolate covered strawberries....                         
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« Reply #22 on: May 31, 2006, 02:42:37 PM »


I like chocolate covered strawberries....                         

Try them with white chocolate, it taste better  :)

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #23 on: June 02, 2006, 06:23:57 AM »
You love, a woman for what she is,,not for what she has,we are in the twenty-century not the eighteen century.
sadly to say virgin or not,the point is how long the marriage will last.. and that is the most important thing
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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #24 on: June 09, 2006, 08:29:00 PM »
I honestly have no respect for any guy who screws around over and over again and then turns around and says that he wants a virgin or that girls cannot do the same. Its pure hypocracy!! From what I know, being a virgin is mainly following a religious or self obligation. Also, the Bible does not offer freedom for a man to screw around while the women cannot. It is a SIN for both MAN and woman!!!! Those guys who mislead girls into these things are full of False Intentions and the "Golden Circle" (i.e. Karma) will play in their lives. Most people believe in this and it happens....SO WATCH IT GUYS!! :bangin:

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #25 on: June 09, 2006, 09:13:22 PM »
We always hear about Assyrian girls venting at Assyrian men because they have sex with girls before marriage and screw around, but when it is time for marriage, they want a virgin one. While this is not true of all Assyrian men, I have to agree with the girls on this one. Men can't have it both ways. Moreover, if they are going to screw around with girls, how will there be any virgins left? if, for example, every man has sex with 2, 3 girls, then nothing will be left (hypothetically speaking)

But, and I hope people weren't blind to this, Assyrian men are not the only men in the world who go around having sex, and then look for a virgin when they want to get married. Canadians and Italian men do it too and at a worse rate. This was made clear in my conversation with many customers at my both jobs. I have been asking them about this for years and I didn't post until I made sure it was frequent enough.

Here are some of the examples:

-A Canadian customer, from a Texas origin was in the store with his wife. His wife, who is a reborn Chrsitian was telling me "these Candian men are monsters. They have sex a million times a year, but when they get married, they want a virgin..."
She even said that this is leading to child pornography, because only chiuldren under 13 are pure enough yet.

-An Italian customer of mine was telling me the same thing. He said " a lot of Italian men end up going back to Italy, to the vilages, in hopes of finding a virgin..."

-A customer for whom I do some computer works told me the same thing. He said "at least you guys (Iraqis) can probably go back to Iraq and get a Virgin girl...but for us Canadians, where can we go?" LOL


And many many more. So as we can see, this problem is not the exclusive domain of Assyrians. It just happens that we talk about it more and think it is only our problem.



ASHOOR

Well here in England, you tend to find that the assyrian guys will date and have their sexual 'fun' with non assyrian girls, and then when it comes time for them to get married, they drop their girlfriends like a deadweight and then let their parents hook them up with a 'good assyrian girl'.......


Even though i agree us guys in England like having our fun, id like to know where you got the idea that we want our parents too hook us up with a good Assyrian girl.......... can you give me an example of where a gf has been dropped and parents have hooked up a son???

Baklawa that was a cool story im gonna have 2 use them lines on my mother when she throws that rubbish at me, but she doesnt use sooriya though, she says she'll find me a good nocheeyeta girl :loool:

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #26 on: June 10, 2006, 02:30:10 AM »
I Demand a Virgin and nothing Short of a Virgin, as an Assyrian Man i have every right in saying that regardless of the Girl's history and past  :ranting: :ranting: :ranting:


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« Reply #27 on: June 10, 2006, 02:45:20 AM »
Nice topic ASHOOR  :)


It is true, it is not only the Assyrian/Chaldean men who play around and when its time for them to get married, they look for a virgin girl. (Of course not everyone is the same..)

I know Greeks too who think like that.  I had an Italian friend too, i used to talk to her about this and she would tell me same thing about Italian men/guys.
But the thing with them is, the majority of their men accepts non-virgin girls because they either live with them before marriage, or understand where they are coming from.

From my friend's experiences or other people, I have known alot of girls and i have heard alot of different stories about this subject.
I knew a girl who wasnt a virgin, actualy she had lost her virginity from a young age, when she met this Assyrian guy who was one of the most religious people, every sunday in church, a member of the youth group.. so on  ... He liked her and went out, and he knew about her past and he still stayed with her and married her.

Another girl, who was with this guy (Famous as a Player Around) and she was with him for years, and he always assured her that it is a must for him to be married to a virgin. She still stayed with him, even she knew he wont marry her.

So not always its the guys who screw the girls, Sometimes the girls Allow this to happen to them  :thumbdown:

There are much more ...All guys are different. Not all Assyrian/Chaldean Men are the same.

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #28 on: June 11, 2006, 07:29:47 PM »
Wow.......I think I am realy from an old generation....I don;t care if the man screwd around or not....but a girl has to be virgin..

a girl does it for herself.

No offend to anyone who do it, everybody has the right to do whatever he or her like to do, but I pass.

and I only know about muslim who stay virgins not other cultures/
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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #29 on: June 13, 2006, 03:16:49 AM »
You love, a woman for what she is,,not for what she has,we are in the twenty-century not the eighteen century.
sadly to say virgin or not,the point is how long the marriage will last.. and that is the most important thing
believe it or not when it s time to get married u gonna marry a virgin one,,, this how we are even if we become in 41 century assyrian still gonna be the same,,, the men won't marry except a virgin and if she is not OOPS she is *****,,,
Ashoor not canadian or italian only ,,, is everyone its in man to have virgin,,, he wants to be the first one and he doesn't give damn if he is the last all what he cares is he is the first one,,, guys (white, hispanic and black ) were after me when they knew i am virgin ( rabak makhalasny menon) they kept begging and begging and this was in TEXAS. while assyrian guys don't have respect to assyrian girl they treat her as she is american or hispanic or whatever. what i have is when assyrian guy want to screw up with assyrian girl

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #30 on: June 13, 2006, 05:33:18 PM »
But I think that is to not equalize the men and womans rights to do the same.. My final opinion is: As it is said in the bible.. Both parts should stay virign until they are married. Cause when you have sex when you are married and your man has had sex with other women before you, he will think of this woman, or at least compare you two. But if he has not, then you both share something beautiful and new. The same goes both ways. But since no one is virgin anymore, of the boys, so my opinion is, the girl does not have to be virgin. And boys who love screwing virgins, have problems. Poor boys. That's the kind of boys you should turn away from. And when you are in love with someone, and she or he is in love with you, there is nothing wrong in sharing that love together before you get married, as long as you are engaged.. But still, there is a reason why the pastor says: You can kiss the bride now.. Cause that's when God has given you the right to marry and first time kiss her.. Cause when you are not married, you are comitted to God, and God sees you as a child still, untouched, and pure.

But for some people, who has lost their virginity by accident, like me, there is nothing wrong with that, aslong as you have not had a sexual intercourse with anyone..

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #31 on: June 13, 2006, 07:26:38 PM »
Traumatic accidents -- like a fall or rough horseplay -- can lead to that, especially in women with very thin hymens.
"January 2010, the nail in the coffin, the day Zowaa will die." Hilarious prediction posted by "chaldean."
March 2010: Zowaa wins 3 out of 5 seats in the Iraqi Parliament!

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #32 on: June 13, 2006, 07:27:57 PM »
Senalko senalko senalko.....let me explain khacha...

If you are talking about the Hymn ( the membrane which breaks and sometimes bleeds) then its very easily lost.

Girls who do alot of sport like gymnastics, bike riding and horse riding can strech and tear it. Also there are about 4 or 5 types of hymn and not all of them bleed when broken and not all of them break. Some girls are not even born with one...does that  make them a non virgin?

To the guys, do you expect your virgin wife to bleed? and what happens if she doesnt?

But i agree to me a virgin is someone who has not  had any sexual experience not necessarily intercourse

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #33 on: June 13, 2006, 07:30:04 PM »
Oh and also as you get older the membrane wears and tears down...so in older women it hardly exists if they are still virgins

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Re: I Thought only Assyrian Men Wanted Virgin Girls for Marriage???
« Reply #34 on: June 13, 2006, 07:37:53 PM »
Sadly, countless women have been humiliated, or worse, killed because they did not bleed on their wedding night.

Reminds me of this haywan I used to know.  Typical Assyrian guy who slept with anything with a skirt and then sent for his khizmeeta from Beirut when he was ready to marry.  Claimed the day after the wedding that his bride was not a virgin and sent her packing back home, ruining her reputation and causing a rfit with their families. He later married kha Ameriketa who was divorced and had a kid  :bangin:
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